For many years I have struggled with my self image. Having a mental health illness sometimes it’s hard to find yourself ‘outside’ your illness. It is not ANYONE else’s job to tell me who I am or what I am allowed to be. I am a strong person. I am a start person. I am a thoughtful person. I am a Bipolar Person. If you look at me and take advantage of that or try not to acknowledge that then your not looking at me…. I am a mess for sure. Clumsy, forgetful, absent minded. BUT… We have value, we are not here to make you feel better. SO FUX YOU!